|Little Man on his Birthday!|
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This newly discovered ease of nursing has arrived just in time for toddler antics. My son - who probably knew what to do all along anyway - can now nurse while trying to stand on his head. He can walk up to me at home, lift my shirt, nurse and then off he goes. He can nurse while thwarting my attempts at writing (or pepper it with his own little flair). Or he can have days where he is so distracted that he ignores me completely and only settles down for a marathon feed at bedtime.
Nursing, has magic healing powers. If he falls while trying to chase down the cat - nursing makes it better super-quick so he can be off again! If he is feeling awkward, nervous or shy in a new place, we can quietly nurse until he feels confident enough to engage the situation. We nurse when he is cranky or tired because he feels relaxed and peaceful in my arms.
Our nursing bond has helped me as well. When I've had a stressful day at work, I can reconnect and let go with my child in my arms. His wiggling and squiggling remind me of the love we share and how much fun we have together. All the day's stresses melt away when I look in his eyes. That moment is ours and ours alone to share with each other.
Now that we have reached this point in our nursing journey I have been able to assist other mothers who may be struggling with their own nursing relationship. I have been able to share my story with others and help them find the resources that they need in order to continue. I model breastfeeding as normal no matter where we are so that future parents see it and become comfortable with it. I share my extra milk with mothers who need it to feed their children. I nurse a toddler - because I can nurse a toddler.
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Mama Alvina of Ahava & Amara Life Foundation: Breastfeeding Journey Continues
Elita @ Blacktating: The Last Time That Never Was
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That sounds rough! I feel blessed that my nursing came pretty easy for my little ones. I really admire your dedication to see it through! To make it work for you! You're amazing!ReplyDelete
This is a great post for this month's carnival. I think a lot of people assume that if you're breastfeeding after a year, it was all easy-peasy from the beginning. I don't think many realize that you can face difficulties, sometimes many of them, and keep going for along time.ReplyDelete
I almost didn't make it with my first and he (and his two brothers) are going strong after almost 5 years. If I hadn't had stories like yours available to me online, I don't know that I would have kept searching for right help for as long as I did.
I was really excited to see that made a product like this. My thoughts were, "how great, I can nurse/supplement all at once and not have to wash a million bottles!" Less hassle & very helpful.ReplyDelete